Can I be real for a minute

beebemarie:

I think it’s fucked up that in order to be respected as a woman I have to play games with men. I have to act like I don’t want certain things, stroke his ego and keep things that are obvious and irrelevant a mystery. I have to play coy or uninterested and not come on to strong. I don’t like that I…

its the fear, the fact that we don’t want to accept reality that keeps us in that box. The fact that we want life to be the way we are instead of accepting life as it is keeps us from experiencing the beauty of life and the fullness of love… love isn’t what you want it to be … Love is